You have described well the limitations of secondary accounts on a Virgin Media account.
However, there are a couple of things that need explaining.
First, whether a primary or secondary account once set up the actual email address cannot be changed. Secondary accounts can be deleted by the account holder but that email address can never be used again by anyone.
You best way forward is to set up a new email address with an email provider independent of your ISP. Once you have access to that email address you can use it as your primary username for your own Virgin Media account.
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