Albiet I use wireless my Ping has been perfect for the last couple years or so and something has happened in past two weeks changing it. I used to have some form of issues with ping but it do able I could play games any time of day and it'd be fine. But now I get in a game for example of Siege and ping spikes up to 8000 and I'm kicked off the game. Not offline just off the game.
I have no problems what so ever with connecting to certain websites or downloading things its only ping issues.
With Cable in on a speedtest I hit 9ms , 150mbps down, 10 up
Wireless like 12 ping, 20mbps down and like 0.7 up
That shows no issues- but Id expect that given you've said its just certain games you are having issues with.
Are you having the same issues with anything else?
We really need to see a traceroute to a server/site you have the issue with to diagnose much more- if that's not possible, its down to generic advice - if its just on one game, speed-tests are okay and latency to other servers is fine - its the game servers.
Your BQM isnt populated because you haven't enabled reply to IMCP...
Without wanting to sound patronising, its irrelevant what is happening with your friends on VM- that just proves its not a generic VM problem. We need to see your route to the server to diagnose what going on? Do you know how to run a traceroute? Do you want me to post some instructions?