Hello elbee8_1,
Thanks for the update and additional information, we appreciate the frustration this is causing and understand the confusion. We aren't able to help or support with VPN's via the community, from what you have advised this may be on the VPN side as opposed to the connection side if you only lose connection on the laptop and not other devices connected to the same network.
Do you know if all of the other people effected that you know are using Virgin Media? If this is across multiple ISP's then the issue will almost certainly be with the VPN and we would ask you to raise this again with your IT department.
Rob