Hi tedc
Thanks for posting and welcome to the community.
I am not sure what you mean, if you have more than one V6, we'd upgrade both to the 360. So you'd be sent two remotes.
Follow this for me and it should solve it;
1.) Turn on all V6 boxes: take your current TV boxes off standby and check that they're connected to the Internet, ready to download TV 360.
2.) Pop the telly on: check that it's set to the correct Input and that Virgin TV is playing.
3.) Grab the old V6 remote control: tap the Home button, select Apps & Games > Upgrade To Virgin TV 360 Now > OK.
4.) Follow the instructions on your telly: when you see "Time to make the big switch", remove the red tab from just one new 360 remote (it doesn't matter which one).
If nothing happens, try pressing OK on the new 360 remote, or grab the V6 remote again, press the red button, and enter 847446 (the verification code) to start the upgrade.
If the new TV 360 remote doesn't work once the upgrade has finished, try pointing it at the TV box whilst holding down the TV and 0 buttons together for 10 seconds (this may take a few tries).
Where applicable, you should also use the second 360 TV remote for the second TV box when it's upgraded itself.