I have absolutely and totally ruled out all of my own equipment. When my connection drops out, the whole hub 5 is totally dead, can’t access it until after unplugging, plugging back in.
also whilst on a call to vm in regards to a tv fault (bad pixelation) after 2 replacement boxes, they mentioned there was a fault with my broadband, at the time I wasn’t having issues and I said I was using it in modem mode and they said it wouldn’t be a problem then, of course I should have asked more but I’m autistic and I was edging towards a tantrum and losing control so I did all the pleasantries to get the call to end, and end without me being rude.
so if no one from vm has seen this and contacted me by mid morning tomorrow I will try calling and get an engineer out or a replacement router! The replacement would be easiest and cause less disruption but I doubt I’ll be able to choose