novmsupport wrote:
"You would expect info on how to connect Outlook to VM e-mail servers would be published on a help page"
I'll say at the outset I am not defending VM but just trying to offer some (hopefully) useful advice.
There is a Helpsheet from Virgin Media which has a lot of information about using VM's email service including a section on "How to set up my Virgin Media email on a device" which takes you through the necessary steps.
Sadly. that is not easy to find but here's a link to it https://www.virginmedia.com/help/broadband/manage-email-account
"the support person changed something to fix it and changed e-mail password now even my phone doesn't work. Also. it does not specifically"
That sounds as if that they did not explain to you about the need to generate a "mail app" password for Outlook ans any other email apps that you use. However, I see that Graham_A helped you with that when you posted back in September but I have repeated it here again for the benefit of anyone reading this for the first time.
It does seem that many VM support staff appear to be unaware that VM now insist that you use the mail app password in the email settings of all your email apps.
The Helpsheet in the link explains how to generate a new mail app - see the section "Setting your app password to use an Email app".
Just for completeness, to access your VM email account directly on the VM website you now need to enter the third party (non VM) email address as the username and the "normal" password that has just been reset.
"manage e-mail password isn't present on my account settings or account details"
Sorry, I cannot offer any solution to that although I know a lot of people are currently experiencing it. All I can say is that I have also experienced that on My Virgin Media account a few times. However, I found that it always came back when I have refreshed the web page a few times.
Coenoby