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Frustrated110
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30 days ago

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Vm owe me money, but keep lying about how and when this will be refunded. Repeatedly telling me it’ll be 14 days for a cheque (I’m always told it has been ‘batched’) . Then I’m told it can be a bacs payment because the chèque was delayed due to a ‘backlog’. Then I’m told Virgin media has a bacs outage, I should wait 14more days for a cheque , etc etc. Then a ‘manager’ will tell me everyone else has it wrong, everyone forgot about the cheque,it’ll  be another 14-30 days please …..

anyone experienced similar? online it seems there are so many others in the same boat, with VM even failing to compensate properly after ombudsman interventions. Super frustrating.

 

 

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  • I’m interested to know if anyone else has been successful in receiving their compensation? Or if anyone managed to escalate a complaint in a productive way and speak to a person who CARED or actually actioned a solution? I don’t understand the Virgin ‘managers’ at all? It seems they have absolute authority to promise the world with no responsibility at all to fulfil them , or adhere to their legal obligations ? I’ve had so many platitudes but zero action. 

    • jpeg1's avatar
      jpeg1
      Alessandro Volta

      That's how the system is designed. You are expected to play you part in it by getting tired and giving up. 

  • goslow's avatar
    goslow
    Alessandro Volta

    Delays in getting refunds are a common topic of complaint on here as are manager call-backs and promises that are never met.

    Have you made a formal complaint to VM yet? If not, that is your first step. There is a high chance this will be very quickly closed with an incomprehensible 'resolution'.

    https://www.virginmedia.com/help/complaints

    If that happens you can then go to the ombudsman by means of rejecting the resolution and demanding a deadlock letter.

    https://www.cedr.com/consumer/cisas/overview/

    If the ombudsman rules in your favour, and if VM fails to deliver, you can use the small claims legal process in conjunction with your ombudsman decision.

    You should get a VM reply on here but that may well involve more of the same run-around so be ready to put the other options into play as soon as you can.

    • Frustrated110's avatar
      Frustrated110
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      Thank you yes, I have made formal complaints which are, as you say , incomprehensibly and repeatedly closed when a manager sends an email to say a cheque is ‘in the post’. I will go the ombudsman route, just that I’d really hoped for a faster solution .

  • goslow's avatar
    goslow
    Alessandro Volta

    Unfortunately, in the case of VM, you have to fight bureaucracy with bureaucracy.

    To go to the ombudsman you either need a deadlock letter from VM or 8 weeks have to have elapsed since you first complained about the issue.

    Feedback on here, from people who have used the ombudsman in the past, has been positive in the vast majority of cases. Typically something like 80 to 85% of cases are found in favour of the the customer and/or VM 'settles' by agreement with the customer.

    Past topics give the impression that the ombudsman is very well aware what sort of organisation VM is. It also costs VM if a case goes to the ombudsman which may possibly encourage VM to pay up.

    You should also request a 'time and trouble' award in any decision for the amount of effort you have had to put in to get VM to pay you.

  • Hi Frustrated110 👋 Welcome to the community forum! Thanks for joining and making your first post. 

    Sorry to hear you are awaiting a cheque refund from us. 

    Cheques are sent via second class post, and so can take up to 30 days to arrive. Once a cheque refund has been sent we wouldn't be able to process a BACS refund. 
    We can check that the cheque has been processed and sent for you, we will just need to confirm a few details via PM. 

    I will send you one now - please keep an eye on your Inbox 📩 in the top right corner of the page. We can return to this public thread with another update when possible.

    Thanks for your patience and co-operation in the meantime! 🌞

    • Frustrated110's avatar
      Frustrated110
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      30 days for second class post?

      Are they posted from the Indian call centre then ? 

    • Frustrated110's avatar
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      To add . I’m only awaiting a cheque because despite at least 20 assurances from various managers that the payment would be made by bacs, (including one manager , suraj, who informed me he had MADE THE TRANSFER himself🤯) , the bacs was cancelled and a cheque was issued . The lies and false assurances have been unreal. 

    • Jcooper98's avatar
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      Warning to anyone considering taking a complaint to the Ombudsman about Virgin Media

       

      You can take Virgin Media to the Ombudsman, but based on my experience, be aware that Virgin may still try to avoid paying what is awarded.

       

      Timeline & facts:

       

      • November 2025 – Virgin Media applied account credit and repeatedly told me it would be refunded via cheque or BACS.
        Despite this, the credit was used to offset bills while they continued taking direct debits from my bank.
      • After chasing Virgin Media for months and dealing with consistently poor customer service, I requested a deadlock letter due to breach of contract and complaint resolutions being changed without my knowledge or consent.
      • The Ombudsman accepted my case. I provided chat transcripts and call recordings.
      • 2 January 2026 – The Ombudsman upheld my complaint and explicitly ordered:
        • A written apology
        • A £450 cheque for service failures
      •  
      • 27 January 2026 – Virgin Media decided to use existing account credit from November to “settle” the Ombudsman award.

       

       

      This directly contradicts the Ombudsman’s findings, which clearly stated that:

       

      • Account credit could remain on the account and be used to offset future bills (as Virgin normally does)
      • The £450 was an additional award, specifically for distress, inconvenience, and service failures

       

       

      The Ombudsman’s written decision states (paraphrased):

       

      • Virgin failed to provide clarity around credit vs refunds
      • There were shortfalls in service
      • The complaint was upheld
      • A £450 cheque was required, in line with similar cases

       

       

      Despite this, Virgin Media and ADR later claimed they had “completed the remedy” by doing the following:

       

      1. Saying the £450 compensation was applied as account credit on 27 November 2025
      2. Deducting bills from that credit
      3. Sending the remaining £413.29 by cheque on 27 January 2026
      4. Issuing a formal apology

       

       

      This is not compliant with the Ombudsman’s decision.

       

      The original account credit was for separate issues, including:

       

      • A missing free gift when I took the contract
      • Installation at the wrong address
      • A two-week installation delay
      • Complaints being closed without resolution
      • Senior staff providing false timelines for refunds

       

       

      The Ombudsman clearly awarded a new £450 payment, not permission for Virgin Media to reuse existing credit to pay themselves.

       

      I’m not being ungrateful — but using my own compensation to settle an Ombudsman award is not what was ordered.

       

      Given everything that has happened, including non-compliance after an upheld Ombudsman decision, I would strongly advise anyone to think carefully before dealing with this company

      Still chasing them now to get them cough up what they have been ordered to do. 

  • I’m in the same situation, VM owe me nearly £400 in compensation but have failed after around 10 times of ‘sending a cheque’ and ‘BACS’ requests, hours of speaking on the phone and live chat to get told that they’ve definitely sent. Obviously haven’t. I’ve gone through Ombudsman but unfortunately they can’t force them to refund you, only request further compensation. I’m still waiting for mine since August 25 

    • goslow's avatar
      goslow
      Alessandro Volta

      If you have an ombudsman decision in your favour and VM has not complied, next stop should be the small claims court process to enforce the ombudsman decision.

      Don't mess about trying to get VM to pay up for another 5 or 6 months.

    • Rebecca_CI's avatar
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      Hi Jamiemoss43,

       

      We are sincerely sorry to hear that it has taken an extended period of time for this matter to be resolved. We understand how frustrating this experience may have been, and we appreciate your patience throughout.

       

      In order for us to look into this further and ensure the issue is fully addressed, we will need to complete some security checks with you. For your privacy and protection, we will continue this conversation securely.

       

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      Thank you for patience.

       

    • Jcooper98's avatar
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      It depends Jamie if the ombudsman's has upheld your complaint and made finding against them and told them it implement remedies then it legally binding - Just appalling they just do what they want and no one does anything to stop them , I hope you get sorted