Hi @pawprintbooks,
Welcome back to our Community Forums! Thank you for your post and I'm very sorry to hear that you suspect that your secondary email account has been hacked! I can understand how frustrating this can be for you and I'll do my best to assist.
Have you taken a look at our Virgin Media Security page to see what you can do in this instance?
In order to investigate further, I will send you a Private Message to confirm some details. Please keep an eye out for a purple envelope at the top right corner of your Forum page. I will be in touch soon.
Thank you.