If the message came from your TV and not the 360 then it's probably because you need to go into the TV settings and change the stand by, or eco timer settings, sometimes called Auto Power to Off rather than On
Thanks for posting on our community forum and sorry to hear about the issue with your TV.
Have you tried the above suggestions from the very helpful roy247 and newapollo? Please do provide us with an update.
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