Upstream power is fine almost anywhere between 38 dBmV and 48 dBmV. It can even go a bit either side of those without problems, but when you're in those borderline values there's certainly a higher probability of problems. So there's nothing wrong with the value you're seeing.
I can't comment on the other aspects of your post, sorry.
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