OK answering my own question from the above Galaxy tab S8 connected to a VM hotspot.
Forget the connect app it doesn't work. You need to set up a connection manually.
In your settings wifi add network.
Name :- Virgin Media
Security :- WPA/WPA2-Enterprise
EAP Method :-TTLS
Identity :- vmedwifi/your VM email address
Password : -the password you use with the above email address to connect to virginmedia.com
CA certificate :- Don't validate
Phase 2 authentication MSCHAPV2
And it then connects to the hotspot
Hub4/Gig1-> pfSense->Microtik CRS312/CSS326/CRS305->Meshed Asus RT-AX89X