Unfortunately I know how you are feeling.
we signed up for VM on 17th November and our’ Account Manager’ booked us in for installation on 29th November. About midday on 29th I got a text and email to say that it would have to be cancelled and rearranged due to an issue beyond their control.
to try and cut a long story short, we had a rearranged date of the 30th December cancelled on that day and then rearranged for the 29th March. All the while our ‘Account Manager’ becomes the Scarlett pimpernel. I have many conversations with VM where I get cut off. We actually have had a couple of letters that have mentioned permits needed, but to crown the big pile of poo, a couple of weeks ago 2 engineers came and connected the cabling and fixed the box outside the house. Didn’t need permits and didn’t need to close the road. I was lied to.
Anyway I still have to wait until the 29th March as there are no slots available until then.