Virgin team turned up this morning
In the meantime and during the timespan of forum comments I decided for everyone involved to sign up with Virgin and remove BT for broadband to the house. Not an ideal cost solution for me, but certainly in installation and cable recovery terms, much easier .
Now we deciced to use Virgin, they are able to use some of the old cables, and redundant cables have been removed totally from old installation.
Old Virgin telephony cable has been removed. I will be doing the brickwork repair myself where cleats were removed and hole where the cable was removed.
Although the background issues still exist on permissions from tenants and wayleaves it will be a problem elsewhere Im sure, they are now not an issue for me.
Virgin have listened and a compromise reached. Thanks to all
So in summary and to close the thread the installer (Nelson) and partner have finished and left site, job well done.
Thanks to all on the forum and to
Zak_M (forum member) and I suspect Virgin staff for your help