Hi @Dcasspow thanks for your post although I'm sorry to hear of your concerns raised.
How did you sign up to Volt please, was this through us or via your O2 app? If via O2, it can take up to 14 days for your Virgin Media speed boost to be provided.
In terms of Netflix, if you haven't had the activation email yet can you please check your My Virgin Media account? You can log into your My Virgin Media account where you'll see a Netflix tile. From there you can activate the service by clicking on the purple Activate button.
I hope this helps!
Many thanks
Tom_W