Hi Gazz,
I think there may have been a little confusion here, if you have referred a mate who has then gone on to join Virgin, you receive a credit of £50 onto your account which goes towards clearing off bills.
You wouldn't be sent the money directly.
I apologise if there has been any miscommunication here but I hope this helps.
ED
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