It is simply not necessary at this stage to worry about this. I've moved your post to the landline section where it will be picked up by a VM staff member who will get this resolved for you. But people usually chose their mother's maiden name as their secure password/memorable word. If you try and phone this in that way lies madness. You'll get a better response by waiting here - in the right section of the Forum.
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