"Are the managers and complaints team too arrogant to call disgruntled customers back? "
Not at all, it's just a tactic to end a call that an agent can't handle because they either don't have the skills, systems, or authority to take ownership and resolve a complaint (and probably all three apply). It is a common experience with complaints to get an automated message from the company claiming that "we tried to reach you and there was no answer", even when the customer knows full well that no attempt was made. VM management know what their customers think (for example, they can read comments on Trustpilot or ISPReview), and although most customers don't need to contact the company or complain, those that do often discover a low cost, poor quality customer service model, and complaints handling that seems to be performed with the same lack of customer focus, energy, or skill. The forum staff are a welcome beacon of light in this darkness, so there's a little hope yet.
I'll flag this for forum staff to advise on getting whatever the complaint was about resolved, if that doesn't deliver then you should consider the much slower, but often bone-crushingly effective option of escalating to the industry arbitration scheme CISAS. The key thing about approaching CISAS is that either eight weeks must have passed since the complaint was formally notified (regardless of outcome), or you you can approach CISAS before that so long as the company have issued you a "deadlock letter", which is typically where your complaint asked for a particular settlement or outcome, and they are actively refusing. Once a complaint is made to CISAS and accepted, VM can't then communicate with you about that matter until CISAS issue an adjudication, so you can't "mix and match", you escalate to CISAS if you have concluded that you have exhausted the ability of the company to address the matter.
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