Instead of fretting just look at the rest of the posts in this part of the Forum. You will see that is a problem affecting hundreds of VM mail users. So you are not alone. You can get through on the phones, if you try long enough but that tends to be futile exercise so you are best off here.
The VM staff here will contact you in this thread in about 24 hours (that is their aim). So wait here for them to contact you and take the necessary details from you. Don't post anything publicly that identifies you.
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