Hi @sadfacerl,
I'm really sorry to hear you're experiencing issues when resetting your MyVM/Email password. So I can investigate these issues further, and assist in regaining access to your accounts, please look out for my PM in the top-right of our forums, in the purple envelope.
@barry21, as you are also facing these issues, I'll pop you a PM over, as well, to get things sorted.
Cheers,