You should be able to change the password either via My Virgin Media:
Sign in to My Virgin Media, go to My Profile and/or Manage Accounts depending on whether the account concerned is your primary account or an additional one. Select the account concerned and then click on Change to the right of password if a primary account or View/Change then change to the right of password for secondary accounts.
Or if this isn't available use the Forgotten Password route:
virgin-media-reset-username-and-password
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