Unfortunately as you are not a VM customer they will not be able to help you regain access. All they will be able to do is ensure the account is fully deleted as it should have been 90 days after you left.
It is worth trying the password reset option as a long shot. You may also be able to access the account via an email client such as Thunderbird.
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