I know I'm a pest, so apologies in advance.
The email from the 3rd party was from me and to me.
They specifically told me to check this.
I am really not tech savy, but the fraudster had access to online orders I've placed ie a pink hand bag.
They made me think they were watching me, I then realised (or assumed) they had seen my online orders.
Also I am very confident the alias address is not an old email which I have set in the past.
I still really worried.