@Mooster96
You're right to be cautious, but I'll try to assist a little here...
Take a read of this page - anyone who is listed on this page, or who has the title "Forum Team" or "Moderator" under their username, are paid Virgin Media staff who will use the Private Message system to exchange personal details with you in the same way as you would exchange telephone passwords with you if you called a CS agent on 150.
Anyone with a rank other than these, is just another customer like yourself and you should not exchange personal details with them. The only semi-exception is anyone like myself with a rank of "Very Insightful Person". There's more information on the link in the signature of all my posts - we are not Virgin Media staff and whilst we have been recognised by VM for the quality of our advice over time, we don't have any access to your individual account.
So long as you are only exchanging Private Messages with users who you are confident are flagged as "Forum Team", you can be confident you are dealing with VM paid staff.
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