Please don't use mx3
The MX server names that your server connects to are publicly available using a DNS lookup
C:\Users\timdu>dig mx virginmedia.com
; <<>> DiG 9.10.6-P1 <<>> mx virginmedia.com
;; global options: +cmd
;; Got answer:
;; ->>HEADER<<- opcode: QUERY, status: NOERROR, id: 54827
;; flags: qr rd ra; QUERY: 1, ANSWER: 2, AUTHORITY: 0, ADDITIONAL: 1
;; OPT PSEUDOSECTION:
; EDNS: version: 0, flags:; udp: 512
;; QUESTION SECTION:
;virginmedia.com. IN MX
;; ANSWER SECTION:
virginmedia.com. 15634 IN MX 1 mx.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net.
virginmedia.com. 15634 IN MX 1 mx.mnd.ukmail.iss.as9143.net.
;; Query time: 21 msec
;; SERVER: 8.8.8.8#53(8.8.8.8)
;; WHEN: Tue Dec 11 09:27:53 GMT Standard Time 2018
;; MSG SIZE rcvd: 110
There are multiple Mail servers connected to each of these MX addresses but the connection is made to one of these two hostnames
Your error message clearly states the hostname that your mail server was trying to connect to:
mx.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net[208.91.112.55]:25: Connection timed out
Here's what I get when I try that server:
telnet mx.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net 25
220 mx7.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net mx7.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net ESMTP server ready
ehlo desktop
250-mx7.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net hello [80.195.xxx.xxx], pleased to meet you
250-HELP
250-SIZE 30000000
250-ENHANCEDSTATUSCODES
250-8BITMIME
250-STARTTLS
250 OK
quit
221 2.0.0 mx7.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net mx7.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net closing connection
BTW here's what happens when I try to connect to mx7 directly.
C:\Users\timdu>telnet mx7.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net 25
Connecting To mx7.tb.ukmail.iss.as9143.net...Could not open connection to the host, on port 25: Connect failed
This is by design. Because the server sits behind the Mail Exchanger gateway it's firewalled so that only connections that come from via the gateway are allowed.
BTW - A slight criticism, why on earth would you try to connect to a mail exchanger on anything other than port 25?
587 and 465 are used at the start of the SMTP chain for email submission, but mail exchangers exclusively listen on port 25
Tim
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