I would like (ME) something that is offered to another person (new) on equal grounds.....
as you said your self LOYALTY works both ways.......
equal
/ˈiːkw(ə)l/
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adjective
adjective: equal
1.
being the same in quantity, size, degree, or value.
"add equal amounts of water and flour"
synonyms: identical, uniform, alike, like, the same, one and the same, equivalent, indistinguishable; More
matching, twin;
comparable, similar, corresponding, correspondent, commensurate
"two lines of equal length"
equivalent, identical, amounting;
proportionate, tantamount;
the same as, commensurate with, on a par with
"fares were equal to a fortnight's wages for a skilled craftsman"
antonyms: unequal, different, more than, less than
(of people) having the same status, rights, or opportunities.
"people are born free and equal"
uniform in application or effect; without discrimination on any grounds.
"a dedicated campaigner for equal rights"
synonyms: unbiased, impartial, non-partisan, fair, fair-minded, just, even-handed, equitable; More
unprejudiced, unbigoted, non-discriminatory, free from discrimination, egalitarian;
neutral, objective, disinterested, without fear or favour
"the right to equal treatment before the law"
antonyms: unequal, discriminatory
evenly or fairly balanced.
"it was hardly an equal contest"
synonyms: evenly matched, evenly balanced, even, balanced, level, evenly proportioned, well matched, on a par, on an equal footing; More
informalfifty-fifty, level pegging, neck and neck
"a fair and equal contest"
antonyms: uneven, unequal
2.
having the ability or resources to meet (a challenge).
"the players proved equal to the task"
synonyms: capable of, fit for, up to, good/strong enough for, adequate for, sufficient for, ready for; More
suitable for, suited to, appropriate for;
informalup to scratch, having what it takes
"Patricia was equal to the task"
noun
noun: equal; plural noun: equals
1.
a person or thing that is the same as another in status or quality.
"we all treat each other as equals"
synonyms: equivalent, peer, fellow, coequal, like; More
mate, twin, alter ego, counterpart, match, parallel;
rarecompeer
"they did not treat him as their equal"
antonyms: superior, inferior
verb
verb: equal; 3rd person present: equals; past tense: equalled; past participle: equalled; gerund or present participle: equalling; past tense: equaled; past participle: equaled; gerund or present participle: equaling
1.
be the same as in number or amount.
"four plus six divided by two equals five"
synonyms: be equal to, be equivalent to, be the same as, correspond to; More
loyalty
/ˈlɔɪəlti/
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noun
noun: loyalty
the quality of being loyal.
"his extreme loyalty to the Crown"
a strong feeling of support or allegiance.
plural noun: loyalties
"rows with in-laws are distressing because they cause divided loyalties"