Welcome to the Community Forum and thanks for your post. I'm sorry to hear that you are being billed for your service before receiving your SIM card and that the number on the SIM isn't the one you wanted. Did you request a mobile number port? Has this been resolved for you since your post?
If you would like for me to look into this, please let me know.
Virgin Media Forum Team
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