Welcome to the Community Forum and thanks for your post. I'm sorry to hear that you are experiencing a problem with making calls to your wife's phone after she changed networks.
I'd like to take a look into this for you, so I'll send you a private message requesting more information. Just check the envelope icon at the top right of this page.
Virgin Media Forum Team
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